17 years...

17 years ago today I was getting my hair done to go to the Homecoming Dance with a guy I liked and had known since I was 13 years old. My dad dropped me off at his house around 6:00 pm .. where I met two of my girlfriends ( Bethie and Sabita) and their dates ( Jonah and Matt). The boys cooked us dinner ( I think my future mother-in-law may have helped with that), we took pictures and hung out for a little while, and then we all took off for the dance.

I remember being very nervous but I also remember the excitement of going to my first Homecoming Dance. My date was gracious and kind but I also sensed some nervousness in him as well. We didn't talk too much , just relaxed and danced with our friends. The funny thing is.. I don't recall the decorations, I don't remember the music, and I couldn't describe the theme of the dance... but I remember exactly where we were when he reached to hold my hand.

My parents were very strict about my curfew...so I know he was nervous about getting me home on time. We were carpooling with another couple , so after a few post-dance stops and some innocent ( don't laugh Sabita) kissing in their car...I was dropped off safe and sound on my doorstep. We were both nervous about saying good-night but we did so and I ran inside with a very pounding heart.

Did I know that we would end up staying together through high school? Nope. Did I even dream that he would one day get down on one knee to ask for my hand in marriage? Nope. Did I even project that we would , 17 years later, have two amazing children and live each day like our first date? Not in a million years..

I am beyond blessed to have Chad in my life. I tell him each day that I love him and my heart still skips a beat when he walks in from work each day. He is my best friend and my family. I hope that I always feel for him what I feel right now.

We have been together more than half our lives....

I love you baby. Happy Anniversary!

xoxoxoxoxo